and says, “Look what you did [to me].” Throughout this section, love will be shown to be a giving of one’s self (time, interests, etc.) to another while giving up one’s own rights, privileges, concerns, etc. Love, in none of the statements that follow, is set forth as something that one possesses in the abstract (in and of itself, for himself). Rather, it is always seen as an attitude of self-giving for the sake of another. Love is always related to God or neighbor; it never stands alone.